Lilith In The Houses and What They Mean

Lilith is an asteroid that reveals your darker qualities, as well as your powers, your flaws, and your weaknesses. Lilith is meant to bring power to you that you must learn to balance and nurture, otherwise the darker qualities will become destructive and devastating for you. Lilith is not meant to harm you, but to teach you when it is okay and when it is not okay to reach within yourself and harness her power. Use it wisely. After all, our weaknesses are meant to become our strengths. The Roots of Lilith come the House they are in your natal birth chart. My personal placement is in the 4th house.

1st House: Profound connection with the occult, rebellious nature, sense of not fitting anywhere, strong sexual energy, abuse of substances, rejection of the self, Lilith’s energy becomes a part of the personality. Intense hidden passions. Conflicts with the father (especially in a female chart).

2nd House: Conflictive relationship with money (deep desire for it, yet a strong rejection too), allowing of betrayal and betraying, rejection of the self (more in a sense of one’s value), living by the approval of others, extreme self-destruction, denying oneself money or life’s pleasures. Fear of losing everytihing.

3rd House: Engage of possessions through writing or communication, sensethat the world has nothing to offer but judgement and abuse, maybe someone reacted negatively against their curiosity or sense of wonder. Fascination-Fear of death, belief that one has no right to live, loss of a sibling or conflictive relationship with them.

4th House: Never feeling at home. Family is related to Lilith somehow, be it a family member or them as a whole, they might have supressed the native’s self-expression. Wilderness, power struggles, war between sexes, violence, substance abuse, conflict and supression are recurring themes. Wound related to early year’s enviroment at home. Profound intuition, sharp perception of others emotions and motivations 

5th House: Intense desire (violent and hidden) and great repulsion or fear of motherhood/parenthood. Need for perfection, fear of not being good enough leads to not doing anything. Might have been shamed in childhood because of how they played. Fear of pain and love. If good relationship with the unconscious it can lead to great originality and unconventional creativity with a preference for dark themes.

6th House: Natural sense of duty or getting things done is judged by others. People unwilling to take the native as a student. Search for unconventional jobs that let them be “free”. Challenging authorities, going day to day without worrying about one’s role in the world or why remaining on a job.

7th House: Quest for the perfect relationship. Extreme projecton of emotional charges onto partners and close friends. Intense attractions and repulsions. Longing for the absolute. Relationships wound or heal deeply. Attracts rebellious, independent, passionate and emotiona people with the same need for absolute perfection. They project Lilith onto others. 

8th House: Instintive, primal, irrational side of the person is more comfortable in an area of intimacy and trust. Relationships require absolute honesty, power, death and other people’s money, death causes transformation and affects the native strongly. Need for extreme, sexuality is considered vital and used as a weapon. Great affinity with secret laws of nature and intuition of hidden things in life. Stronger desire to be alone. If disconnected from their psyche it can cause the contrary,   

9th House: Avoids risks and compromising or on the other hand is a complete idealist. Rejects unconventional studies and intellectuality. Profound integration of instinct and knowledge. Desires to travel and explore deeply but fears it at the same time. 

10th House: Public image is excessive, sexual and irreverent. Difficulty at work and being in public. Big potential for originality and independence at the right profession. Doesn’t like rigid stablishments. After some time people might start feeling decieved by them, thinking that they misjudged their character in a negative way. Irresponsible.

11th House: Looks for perfection in a friend. Extremely selective. Projects internal conflicts onto friendships to solve them. Only wants to give the best to the world. Extremely idealistic dreams and desires. On the other hand they can be careless about their future and show little interest on their friends unless they need something.

12th House: Find themselves hard to protect from anyone, even themeselves. Send their anger inward, as well as other emotions. Isolated, live in their heads. A lot of karma comes this natives way. At it’s best it can provide wisdom and intuition. Capable of great self-destruction and possible substance abuse.